To Do it, or Not, To Do It
When starting to socialize be sure to represent yourself as you want to be perceived.
Be honest, say you “don’t know, if you, do t know”
Say you want to try if you do.
Expert in a specific field, then, say you like to play or are willing to teach.
READ A PERSONS PROFILE
Approach is everything.
if you do not know someone, read the profile, they may be…..
Request verification prior to communication.
CLASSES / EVENTS
Not just for shopping! Go to a class and support your community.
Socialize with respect, of it is not what you are into, that is ok. Knowledge is power.
When talking at a person, do not demean their fetish/kink. They may think that yours is odd, but are willing to accept you, so do the same for them.
You and I are not competitors,
Neither of us better than the other.
You are beautiful and I am beautiful. We breathe the same air. The color of our blood is red. We have our flaws, our weaknesses, our fears. Yes we are different in many ways.
But you and I are not competitors.
It is unfortunate that society has imbedded in our minds that we must fight and compete for the attention of men (or women), instead of coming together and being friends.
It is instilled in us to be nasty and catty to the other person. But I say fuck that. I won’t be a part of that socialization which encourages toxicity to one another. We’re better than that. Respect yourself enough and take the high road.
Be on the side that teaches love instead of the one that preaches animosity and resentment.
You and I are humans. We are not competitors.
NEVER DOUBT YOUR POWER
strive to be, or be there for someone
Listening, honesty, forward, open-minded
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